it's just a matter of DO or DON'T

I must say this in the beginning.

 I am truely and deeply grateful for my life.

I just am. I am healthy and alive. My family members are all pretty healthy and alive. I have a boyfriend who loves me dearly and supports me very much. And I am able to pursuit what I love. I'm not rich. I'm not the prettiest or the most beautiful person. But I love my life and other than being grateful and thankful, I don't know how to express it.

Being able to appreciate what you have can only give you and show you more things to appreciate. The moment you start embracing that little things in your life, you realize how  blessed you are!!!! I mean think about it. There might be many things that you're facing. You might have a physical problem that you're facing. You might have a financial issue that you're facing. Or it could be a relationship issue. It could be anything. If you keep attention to the things you don't like, it can go on forever! You must stop. There must be something that you can be grateful.

Let's say that you don't like your current job. Your boss constantly yells at you and gives you a hard time, while the new guy gets a promotion in just a month! That could discourage you big time. I won't disagree with you. And you might say, "HOW CAN I APPRECIATE SOMETHING IN THAT SITUATION!??????" Well, you have to find one. You can be grateful that you learned to be more patient. You can be grateful that you have a job and didn't get fired. It might take a while to adjust the mentality shift. But, once you are used to it, you'll have so many things to be grateful for.

Complaining can only bring you so much more negativity to your life. You will only attract the exact opposite of what you actually want. And you have that power to shif things around. Anything and any moment can be your turning point. When you decide you'll live your life the fullest with the big appreciation, your life will turn around. Don't worry about how or when things will happen or change. You're not in control of that. Just decide that you're gonna make a change, and do it. That's all you. You have that power. So, let decide today. Whatever it is that's been stopping you from living your life the fullest, let go of it. Let go of all the worries and doubt. Just know that you have everything in you. You'll see the change.

Be grateful for what you have and what you'll have. Don't worry about how or when. Just DO IT. When you stick to that and work hard for what you believe in, and believe in yourself, the universe will take care of the rest. So, today, let's decide you're gonna do it. Because I believe in you. You can do it.

Love,