More often than enough, our tendency is to compare ourselves with other people. You look at them and see what we don't have and envy them, instead of looking at ourselves and be grateful for what's been given to us. And for most of us, it leads to discouragement, disapproval, feeling of inferior, failure.... the list goes on and on. The truth is that we shouldn't be comparing ourselves to anyone. We're all created differently, equipped differently, and raised differently. And we're all created for absolutely different purposes as a piece in this big Universe. So, other than the fact that we're both human beings in anatomical sense we have nothing in common. It's us, that putting ourselves in to frustration.
We all have our image of how life should be, and expect things to be that way. We also want to get accepted by the others, acknowledged by others, and approved by others. So, when we see something or someone that's popular or idolized we put this thought in our head, "I NEED TO HAVE THAT to get to where my life should be". "I NEED TO LOOK LIKE THAT to get to where I want to be." "I NEED TO DO THAT to get noticed by other people.... WRONG!!!!! We look for any materials, characters, quality outside of ourselves when we actually need to look what's already inside us. We have to encourage and embrace who we are as a person, and what we can do, what we can offer first in order for us to be whole. We can't expect anything or anyone to fill the missing part in our lives. We have to dig deeper and look into ourselves to get in touch with who we are meant to be. We have to accept, embrace and enjoy ourselves as who we are to be successful in anything. You have to be the best you for you to be successful in what you're doing, what you want to do, and what you are passionate about. No one can be better than you to be you. You have to be our best you, commit to it, and excel it. You don't have to look like that model to fulfill your path. If I was meant to be tall, I would have been tall. But I wasn't meant to be tall. I'm short for a reason. I'm who I am for a reason. You are who you are for reasons. And nobody can take your place. If you want what other people have, think again. Why do you want it?! Do you need it?!
You're already born with everything you need. Think about it. If the earth was not created in the PRECISELY same place, there might not have been any lives at all. So, we are the same way. We're created with purpose. We're who we are for reason. If the Universe's plan was for you to fulfill your sister's plan, you should have been born as your sister. There's something for you to do. As a matter of fact, there's something only YOU can do. Stop looking outside. Start looking inside of you. Dig a little deeper. You got it all. You are meant to do something incredible. You are already amazing for just being you.So, thank you so much.
Embrace who you are. You are amazing. Nothing and No one can ever take your place. Be the best you. You are already pretty good at being yourself. Don't judge. Don't compare. You are unique. You are already born with everything you need. Find it, use it, and Maximize it!
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