Do you love your family? Do you tell them that you love them? By family, it doesn't only mean by blood. I have all kinds of family and I love them all.
My blood family live on the other side of the world. I chose my path to live here, and I left my home almost 10 years ago. I must confess that I have not been involved in their life as much as I should. I know it's excuses, but having huge time differences doesn't make things easier. The more time goes by, the more I miss them. Yes, emails, skype, so on and so on... it's so much easier to get in contact with them than before. But that' nothing like being there physically for them. Fortunately, they are very supportive about what I do. They love me no matter what. They always let me know how much they love me and want me to be happy. And I'm so grateful to have such an incredible people as my family. It's not easy living apart from them. My grandparents are almost 90 years old. They are wonderful and I love them both so much. My parents are amazing. I don't think I can ever be as great as them. I'm so grateful to be born as their daughter and I do tell them that. Thank you both. My sister is a strong woman and a great mother. We fought a lot when we were small, but now, I see her as one of my best friends. My family always want what's best for me, and what makes me happy. They'll always have my back. And that's the best thing you can ever ask for in family, and in anything and anyone. I love you so much.
And my spiritual family who live all over the world. Some I met long time ago, some just a while ago. We might have absolutely nothing in common, or we have so much things in common... the initial connections are all different. And I love them all so much. Some people I talk more often than the others. Some I see more often than the others. but, whenever we see each other for the first time in years, it doesn't really matter. it's like we just saw each other last week. I've been so lucky to be able to meet so many great people. They've all taught me and shown me different things. Thank you so much and I love you.
What I want to say is, don't take anybody for granted. Every people you meet, they are blessing. They came in to your life for different reasons. The relationship between people is never one way. You have to respect them, treat them right and listen to them. It's something to be worked out. You can't just call them when we need something. Just pick up your phone and ask them how they are doing. We all have a moment, that out of nowhere a particular person pop up in your head, and you get an email from them, or a call from them?! That's a proof that you're connected in the spiritual level. When that happens next time, pick up a phone and call them. Tell them that you care about them. And remember, treasure all the encounter as it will not recur. When your friends/family make a decision to do something for themselves, be there for them.
Be grateful that you have people who you can count on.
Be grateful that you have can call them your friends/family.
Be grateful that they want what's best for you.
Be grateful that you are able to do something for them.
Be grateful that you can value your time with them.
Be grateful that they will be tough when it needs to be.
Be grateful that you're a part of their life.
Make an effort to be a good member of your family.
Let them know how much you love them and how much they mean to you.
Love,
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