Saturday, November 1, 2014

family



How is your relationship with your family? Do you love them?! Do you get along with them?! Or do you have a hard time spending time with them!?

The theme of this TV show was about family relationship. Well, it was initially for teenagers acting up in school. They suddenly scream, or suddenly start hitting other students. start yelling at the teachers, or start bullying other students.... There are so many different cases. One of the comment sent out was this.. "I'm trying to get in to educations, but I'm scared of kids nowadays. I never thought I would say something like that".....It made me sad. The panels talked about how kids can improve their relationship with others, how they can communicate better than other kids/parents....so on and so on...

Whenever I hear something like this, kids acting up, that made me think. Because I'm the same generation as their parents. Kids learn from their parents whether you like it or not. They see things, they hear things. I wasn't necessary a good kid. As a teenager,  I did give my mom quite hard time, which I'm not proud of. Yet, I just love my parents so much.

Right now I'm visiting my parents back home. Being able to spend time with them is not a right, but a privilege for me. They simply are the most amazing parents I could ever ask for. They are not perfect. Then again, is there a such thing as perfect parents?! Everybody learn from their mistakes and experiences. People learn to become parents. (I have to make this clear, but I do not have any kids, so I'm speaking all this from my experience with my parents) They always told me to do what makes me happy. And I know that not every parents are like this and I'm blessed to have such parents. Thank you mom and dad! They told me that they love me everyday.

Kids need your attention and they need to know that you love them. Tell them that you love them. Show them that you love them. Take time to spend time together. Take notice that how they are acting. Be there for them. Communicate with them, talk to them, play with them, study with them. Laugh with them. Cry with them. Tell them that they are beautiful and amazing. Tell them that they are anointed. Tell them that you are proud of them. Don't just assume that they can know any of those.

We're here for the generations to come. We're not the only ones on this Earth. Whatever you have, pass it on. Love, pass it on. Hope, pass it on. Faith, pass it on.

Love, Hope and Faith...

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