it's all about how you see it

This Universe works in a mysterious way. When you pay attention to what's going on, it always giving you the messege that you are suppose to receive. It gives you guidance of what you're facing and how you should approach the next step. Everything is lined up for you if you choose to see it. you have to be open minded. You can't get stuck in your own old way and assume that things are gonna work out just the way you want. Sure, every once in a great while. but most likely/..... NO. Unfortunatelly, that's not how it works.

When you take a new step and approach differently,  it might feel very uncomfortable for you, or might not feel right for you. The truth is that, it might not be. No one can tell you what is the right way or wrong way. The Universe will give you what you're attracting.

Today was a busy day. I went place to place. And BOOM!!!! a brand new idea was planted in me. and right at that moment, whole new perspective was coming in. Things that I didn't even think, or I thought it wasn't gonna work... Boy, I was wrong. That spark of new idea opened up so many possibilities.

You never know how or when things might turn around. You have to keep open minded. Especially when your problem is a financial one, it's tough. You can't solve everything overnight. And even though the economy is recovering, it still is tough. but as it says in "Rich Dad, Poor Dad",

"It's not about 'Oh, I can't afford this'. It's about "HOW CAN I AFFORD!?"

See, with right attitude and mind-set, you will open up a new possibility in your life. So, start seeing things that way. How can I reach!? How can I do this?! And act on it. There's no fiary godmother who grant you a wish over night. But, when you ask for something, and have right attitude/approach, and you act on it.... YOU WILL GET IT!!!!! YOU CAN DO IT.

I believe in you. Be open. Be proactive.

Love,

Don't lose your sight

When you stuck in the middle of something where you are and where you want to be, or where you're meant to be, it sucks. I know it does. It's just hurts and confused to frustlated. It's not a pretty sight.

Don't lose sight of where you want to be, or what you should be, or what you're born to be. Because you WILL get there. You can't forget the bigger picutre in your life. When I say "The challenges are given to you, because you're capable of overcoming it", some people might not agree with that. Did the world hunger happen because those kids in Africa can overcome that situation!?? No. Absolutely not. I totally agree with that. I believe that NO Child should be that way. But it's not about that.

I just want to say that If you know what you want, what you wanna be, what you should be, GO AFTER IT. Don't let anyone stop you. Sure, results won't be as you expected most of the time. They will tell you "You are not good enough", "You are not what we're looking for". "You're too this and that..."...... the list keeps going on and on. Don't let those words discourage you from what you love so much. what you're born to do. those people don't have a clue about what you are!!!!!! no they don't. they don't know how wonderful you are. they don't know how amazing you are. they don't know how kind you are, how smart you are, how thoughtfull you are.. they have NOOOOOOO CLUE. You know who you are and what you are capable of. So, Don't listen to them. If you can take advice from those people to improve, that's great!!!! sometimes, a third person could give a whole new perspective and bring you a new idea. When that happen, USE THAT!!! Anything can teach you to grow and be better. If people piss you off, be glad that you're not like them.

You're amazing. You know what you're. So.... Keep going. If it changes!??? fine, go after that one! it doesn't matter. As long as your heart is in the right place, follow your heart. Love who you are. And love others. Don't let your ego take over. that's different. Respect others as you want others to do the same to you. Believe in who you are and what you're capable of. and don't forget, you can always learn and grow. that's the fun part of it. there's no ending. it can go on forever as long as you're alive and willing to do that. How amazing is that!???? Doesn't that just excite you even more!???

Love,

Do you know how to learn in the rain!??

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it's about learning to dance in the rain."
Vivian Greene

Do you know how to dance in the rain!?? I think there are so many of us that just waiting for the storm to pass. Staying at home, crolling up in your warm blanket, drinking hot chocolate... Now that does sound really good, doesn't it?! It sure is. It is comfortable, safe, and something you are familiar. Sure, when the outside is literary pouring rain and flood everywhere, that's exactly what you want to do. But let's face it, that's not what we are talking about.

It's soooo easy to get stuck in your comfort zone. It's so difficult to get out that, especially the first step. How and when to take the first step out, that seems impossible sometimes. But, when you know that you are more than that, you have to take the leap. The first one is always the most difficult one, especially when you stuck in there for a long time. And it gets easier. It will. Not because it is easier, because you get stronger. You'll have strength to face more challenges. The things you've overcome, that will give you knowledge, courage, and strength.

When life hits you hard, would you just let it happen?? Sure, everything happens for reasons. When things beat you down, or the things don't go the way you want it, you can take it in so many way. It might be helping you to see something you weren't seeing before. It might be stopping you from going in the wrong way. It might be telling you to be more humble and not to be all that. It might be telling you that you can do more and overcome what you're facing for your better future. You can take one single event in so many ways... How you see it is totally up to you. There's no right or wrong answer. You just gonna have to decide it on your own. God knows what it is. And you have to ask yourself. At the end of the day, what do you want the most??? If what you're facing is another obstacle in your life, don't let it beat you. Don't let it discourage you. Don't let it beat you. Because you're better than that. You know that what your heart is telling you. When life hits you hard, hit is back even harder. Learn how to dance in the rain, better yet, love to dance in the rain. Just love it, no matter where you are, or who you're with, just dance. Your heart knows what you want.

Love,

if you don't ask, the answer is always NO.

If you don't ask, the answer is always NO.
How simple is that? but a lot of people don't ask. Sometimes they are afraid that the answer will be NO. or They are afraid that they will think you're crazy or stupid. or They are afraid that you are not worthy enough to get what you're asking.

but guess what??? Don't be afraid. You have to ask. or else you'll never know. Seriously. My life style has changed drastically. Basically, I moved to NYC from LA. Sure. One side of the coast to the other. I don't drive anymore. I walk everywhere. I don't have lots of friends yet. I still am getting myself used to the area. But, I do believe that the change has been happening. I am more proactive. Before I was stuck in my comfort zone. It wasn't challenging. and now that I'm in a whole new world, I have to start from somewhere, or anywhere for that matters!!!

If you don't ask, the answer is always NO...
so, start asking, the answer might be YES.

Love,

You're Never, NEVER too late to start anything!

As long as you're alive and well, you're never too late to start anything. Nothing is stoping you other than yourself. You naturally become your own worst enemy. It's so easy that way. But do you really want to take that easy way, or do you want to push yourself and grow?

the answer is Yes, you wanto to grow. at least that's what I believe anyway.

I went to this seminer today. The guest speaker of the day was very well-known actress. She told us about one story that inspired me so much.

One day, after Thanksgiving, she was invited to a party with her family. She saw this 93 year old lady, yes 93 years old!!!!!, playing New Orleans Jazz Piano. The actress told the lady that she's always wanted to play piano. Then, the lady told her this...

"Honey, you're still a baby. I got my Master and PhD after I turned 60. I started playing classical piano when I was 70. I started playing New Orleans Jazz Piano after that. THen, now, I'm playing with Jazz Band."

What an inspiring story!!!

So, as long as you have a will to learn, and grow, YOU CAN START!!!! Don't be your own worst enemy. Be your own biggest supporter!!!

Love,


Lo

IF=I Fail

If stands for "I Fail". I never see it that way. but now, I totally agree with that. When you're skeptical about something, or have doubt in yourself, you don't really go nowhere. That doubt you're having right now, that shouldn't even be an option. It's not!

We all face fear, especially when things are changing, when things are unfamiliar to you. And those are the time that you grow the most. As a matter of fact, you're in luck! You're exeriencing and learning the new things in your life. It's so much either to just get stuck in your comfort zone. My job pays me enough to get by. My house is big enough. bluh bluh bluh. The list can go on and on. But are those what you really want? what you've dreamt all these time? What you've pictured yourself when you are kids? If your answer is no, it's time for you to move on and get going.

My dear friend told me that whenever she has to make a choice, she tries to pick the one that looks more challenging. How many people are willing to do that nowadays? She pushes herself to grow, to become better. We forget that a lot, don't we? I know it's easier to choose the less challenging one. The results might come to you easier and quicker. Sure. But will that give you the exact same result? or better yet to ask you this. Did you grow from it? or Would you have learned the same thing if you chose the other option???

I'm not saying that you have to make your life more complicated than than what it is already. I'm pretty sure that your life is already complicated. Or, not. What I'm trying to saying is that don't get settled for anything. It's not matter of if (I Fail)..... It's a matter of When you achieve what you wanna be or where you wanna be. It's totally up to you. You can do it. Don't take the obvious easy choice, or the easy choice. Dare to choose the challenging choice. The value you get!? You won't get it any other way. It's worth it. It's not IF. It's WHEN.

Love,

I just

Transition

Change can be scary. You're getting out from your comfort place, and taking risks. That's a great commitment already. And when you're truely aligned with the universe and what you really want, the result will come to you. It'll happen for you. You can't be passive about this.

Sure, The law of attraction teaches you all the good mental approach. But just reading that won't do anything. You have to apply all the lessons to your life! You have to use what you learn. Being passive and hoping that the result will come to you no matter what, well, that's a big mistake. You have to take action. Without it, you will stay where you are. You might be comfortable and content, but you won't grow.

A lot of things are happening in this universe. But if you're not ready to get it or see it, you'll never realize that.

Love is the source of everything. You are love.

Transition is coming. Get ready. And transform yourself. You're better than that. You have so much more to offer. You're more than that.

Love,