Being able to live is not a right. It is a privilege. We cannot and should not take anything for granted.
Everything is precious. Everyone is precious. Every moment is precious. Even things or people that gives you hard time, that's precious, because you are able to experience and learn from that. It's not that everything is perfect. We'll always have problem. It can be anything. a broken car, financial problem, health problem, family problem, relationship problem.... there are millions of things that we can complain. The moment we start paying attention to the things that's not going on, or going against us, we can just keep going. Why is it not like this?! What is wrong with that!? Why is this not happening?! Why is this happening?! The list goes on and on. Are you going to let every single things ruin your life? or dictate how you live your life?! Are you going to let others tell you how you should or should not live your life?! YOUR life!?
Thinking your happiness first and being complete selfish are completely different thing. They are not even close. In order to live your life the fullest, you have to be honest to yourself, be happy with yourself, and embrace yourself. You cannot live your life to please someone. You cannot live your life for other people. You cannot live their life for them. If what you want is to make that person happy, commit to it. Make sure that's what you want. Don't do it out of fear. If I don't do this, this person will hate me, disapprove me, not love me... if that is what you're thinking, don't even bother. Your life is worth so much more than that. You'll never know what you are actually capable of until you stop pleasing others.
"I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.”
“You can turn painful situations around through laughter. If you can find humor in anything, even poverty, you can survive it.”
"Through humor, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.”
― Bill Cosby
I don't want you to live your life just merely to survive. Life is meant to be lived. I want you to enjoy, embrace and cherish every moment in your life. Because there's no better reason not to do so. If you think you did everything, absolutely EVERYTHING you can possibly imagine, think again and look at it from a completely different point of view. Everything has more than one dimension. It has different perspectives to look at. Don't get stuck on one idea. I want you to LIVE this life, not merely to survive, because you deserve better. You deserve the best.
Love,
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