It is so true that people cannot live alone. It just how it is. It just not possible to live alone. It's not even a matter of question. Sure you can talk about realistic elements of that as well. You won't have any electricity if there's no one working at the electricity company. You won't have any food if there's no farmers or fishermen, or bakers. You won't have any Coffee if nobody started Starbucks or Coffee Been!!!!!!! But what I'm trying to say right now is not about that. Let's talk about the importance of friendship.
"Friendship is not what you can get out of the relationship. It is about what you can do for your friends without expecting anything in return.It is your feeling toward them."
Don't you agree??? If you expect certain things in return, there're many businesses do that for you. That's what they're for. And there are people who will take advantage of you for your kindness. Don't let them do that to you. You're better than that. You deserve more.
It's not easy to find those who you can call true friends. it's just not. People will come and go. It's just how it is. Every encounter has its importance and meaning. Even those who you won't like are there for you to learn something. It could be as simple as "OH, I will NEVER want to be like that!!!!". Even a brief encouter can give you a huge influence. You'll never know. And it goes the same to everyone else. You might give someone a huge impression or influence. You meet so many people throughout your life. Just remember everything happens for a reason.
I am very grateful to have people who I can call true friends. They've known me for good and bad, and trust me, my bad days are nothing near pretty!!!!! I can call them in the middle of the night and they'll listen to what I have to say. When I need their help, they are there for me. And they truely believe in my dream as I do for them. I believe in their dreams and I'll do what I can do to support them. I will be there as soon as I can if they need me. They are not there because I do something for them. I can't speak for them. But I am truely grateful to be able to have them in my life. They inspire me. They encourage me. They say things that's not easy but need to be said. They give me advice. They love me.
As you grow older, trusting people can be more difficult. Over the years, you've learned how to protect yourself from getting hurt. And in many occasion, you forget how to open up to others. You creat illusion of who you are and hide in the back. People flake out on you. People betray you. It happens so very often. You have to remember, you deserve better than that. You will have someone or some people who will be there for you no matter what. They will be there for who you are. And to improve you. To inspire you.You might have arguments, then that'll give you better understanding of each other and who you are. They will bring out the talent in you that you didn't even know you had!!
And when you meet those people, don't take them for granted. Don't ever do that. They will help you grow. They will help you in time of need. Always be grateful for them. And treat them with respect. You might get second chance with them, but hardly the third one.
I love my friends. and they are very important part of my life. So, Thank you. Thank you for being in my life. Thank you for being amazing friends.
Love,
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