Love of my life

I love my boyfriend. He's the best. Last night, I was sooooo frustrated with the certain thing. And he gave me the best advice ever.

"If you're gonna have to deal with that anyway, why won't you find the way to enjoy and relax."

AMEN!!!!!! I couldn't have been more grateful to hear this. It has been more than a week since I started dealing with this nonsense, and it felt like a befriending frustration. And I've tried my best not to get myself annoyed, upset, or yell at them. But, it was reaching my limit. Even though I don't like complaining, the way they've been handling things were far from being professional. I knew it wasn't personal, or the fault of whoever I was talking to. It's not. It's just the whole system was messed up and lots of miscommunication. Even though I understood all that circumstances, I was THIS close to scream at them. I'm glad that I didn't. Because it wouldn't have been pretty. LOL

I'm grateful that he's my rock in this relationship. He keeps me sane when I'm about to go crazy. He makes me smile and laugh when I'm up or down. He makes me happy no matter what, even at times when he gets on my nerve, at the end of the day, he makes me happy. He supports me to pursue my dream, even though that means we are apart. He taught me to be strong when I'm weak. He gave me courage to go through life when it's rough. And I'm happy to play the same role from his perspective in this relationship.(well, at least I hope I do.)

We've been together for about 10 years now. Some people don't understand why we're not married or how our relationship works. But we take it day by day. We believe that everything happens for a reason. Right now, we're on the each side of this country. And he wants me to follow my dream and goal because he believes in me. I can't be more happier to be with someone like that. We had our ups and downs. And we've learned to respect each other and love each other for who we are and what we are as indivisual and as together. I can't ask for any better partner than him.

Thank you my love for always being there for me. I will always be there for you....

For the readers.... I hope you'll find someone precious in your life. And once you find that person, do not take that person for granted. Relationship has to be worked out both way. You can't force someone to love you the way you want them to. Take time to know that person. Learn what they like and love. Embrace that moment with that person. Respect that person. Treat them with nothing but love. Sometimes, you need tough love too. Find what's best for that person. Learn how to work as a team. It'll take time. But, when you find that person, you'll be so happy and grateful that you're with that person.

Love,