2 sides of the situation

I love this!!!! Isn't that amazing!? It's all how you see it. When you shift your perspective, everything changes!!! As my mother always told me that

"There are always 2 sides in anything. How you see it is up to you. Do you want to see it with positive attitude? Or do you want to see it with not-so-much-positive attitude?!"

The moment you realize that you don't have to deal with that heavy baggage you've carried for such a long time, you will feel so much lighter. Hopefully your question will be "Why on earth was carrying such a thing!???" You see?! Whenever something/someone upsets me, I'd try to see it as "I'm glad that I'm different". Of course, there are times that it's my fault or my ego talking. Of course I'm not perfect. Not even close. and I won't even THINK about being perfect. Isn't it nice to have room to grow!? Isn't it nice to know that there are more things to learn?! Isn't it nice to know that there are so many different perspective than what you have!?

What happened and what other people has done, you can't change the fact. The only thing you can change is your perspective and how you learn from the incident. Nothing ever happens TO you. Everything happens FOR you. Things are there FOR YOU TO BECOME BETTER YOU.

When you feel like you're stuck somewhere. maybe your job, in your relationship, whatever the situation you are in you have two options. Get out there, or stay there and fight to change the situation. It is a thin line. I agree. On one side, it seems like you are just quitting. And on the other hand, it seems like you are starting the new start! What people say doesn't matter. Just believe in your choice. You KNOW what's best for you. If people tell you that you are a quitter, IGNORE them. They don't know your story. Or tell them that you are starting a new chapter in your life. You know what you are doing. To know when to move on is not a easy decision.

Start changing how you see the situation. Start making a choice that's gonna benefit your life and your future. Start being grateful for the things you are given. That's very important. If you can't see what you have, you'll always see what's missing. If you start focusing on what you already have, you'll find more things to be grateful for. That's how you attract positive things. And it's so easy!!! You don't need anything to shift your perspective! ALL YOU NEED IS YOU!!! So, let's start together!!

Love,

Smile

 

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though it's breaking.
When there are clouds in the sky
you'll get by.

 

If you smile through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shining through
For you.

 

Light up your face with gladness,
Hide every trace of sadness.
Although a tear may be ever so near
That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying.
You'll find that life is still worthwhile-
If you just smile.

 

"Smile" by Charlie Chaplin

 

 

What a beautiful song. So, let's smile. Because life is still worthwhile because you just smiled. Thank you for smiling. I arppreciate that.

Speak out!

We have things that you feel so strongly about. Like, what you want to accomplish. And sometimes, it feels like it's too big to talk about. Maybe out of fear. Maybe out of doubt. The reason can be anything. And I understand that feeling. It's not easy to talk about your dream especially when your confidence level is not as high as you want it to be. Not when where you are is not exactly where you want it to be. It's difficult. It's almost make you feel like you don't deserve to talk about things like that. Like you are not good enough. I understand that feeling so much.

But, I also belive that it's good talk about your dreams and goals. As a matter of fact, I encourage you to talk about them. Not to some strangers. but talk to someone who can inspire and encourage you to move forward. First of all, it's great to know what you want. Second of all, being able to talk to someone, to have someone you can talk to is a blessing. You talk to them, speak out, let that feeling come out from you. Once it's out, you can't back down. At least, the motivation will be different. Now someone else knows what you are after. So, it's the extra push that you might need at that moment. Also by talking to someone other than you, you might find something else that was hidden inside you. Keep talking, you might be surprised by what you said. And that's good. That might have been what you really needed to hear. You get inspired anyway. It doesn't have to be organized. It doesn't even have to make sense. You are feeding good energy out to the world. You're attracting good things to your life.

You're gonna get there. Just keep at it. Work hard. And always keep faith. You're gonna need it.

Love,

Ask and it shall be given

It's all the "Law of Attraction". You keep positive thoughts and act as if it's already there. You talk like it's there. You act like it's there. And know that it's there. As they say, there's nothing you can't be, do or have. Yes!!!! The only downside of this is that you don't know WHEN it's gonna happen. And the fact is that we pretty much want it to be RIGHT NOW. Sadly, you'll never know. You won't know until it happens. It's a bit strange, isn't it!?

You know it's gonna happen.
But you don't know WHEN it's gonna happen.
And they key for that to happen is the act as it already happened, it's already happening.

So, all we can do is believe. And let the Universe take care of it. With your faith, you will receive. You will get the healing, you will get that job, you will get that promotion you wanted.You will receive. But you cannot doubt, not even an inch of doubt shall not enter your mind. It's already been planted for you even before you know it was there. Way before you were born, it was already written in the sky.

Today, a great thing happened. I've been praying that things will turn around for my boyfriend who I care so much. I've known that it will happen for him. I didn't know when but I knew that it's gonna happen for him. And it did. Finally it did. Things are starting to turn around. More and more opportunities are coming in. The doors are opening up for him. I am so happy for him and proud of him for keeping the positive thoughts and prayer for himself. His faith is strong. It's just a beginning. But this is just a beginning. The supernatural power of this Universe has just started to show itself. The shower of blessing is pouring down on him like there's no end. It's unlimited. He acted and knew as if he's got it. and in his mind he did already have the success. He has been patient for such a long time. But he never quite. He never stopped believing in himself. That's exactly what we're gonna have to do.

ASK. It might feel weird to be asking. But be bold, don't be afraid to ask. As a matter of fact, keep asking! Spread the word! Let them know what you want! Speak out loud!!! So, people are going to WANT TO HELP YOU!!!! So, ASK, BELIEVE, and RECEIVE. Because you are worth it. There's nothing you can't BE, DO, or HAVE. You already GOT it. i read this in a book. It's like buying something online. You ordered it, you know it's gonna be delivered to you. You just don't know exactly when. But since you know that you don't really worry. You might have an idea. but You odn't know EXACTLY WHEN.  But you won't really doubt that if it's gonna be there or not. You just gonna be waiting without going crazy. You've already got your ticket. Why do you stress yourself!? You're already on the plane, Why do worry that you won't get to your destination!??? Your destination is already covered. The Universe GOT this!


Love,

the Priority of your life

What is your priority!??? For example, when you want to lose your weight, eating whole pack of chocolate should not be your priority. When you have an important test the next day, going out late at night should not be your priority. When you have a callback for a national commercial, going to your day job shouldn't be your priority.

Sometimes, making that choice might not come easy to you as much as you want. But, when you know that it is the right choice and the move you should be making, don't be afraid. Just do the right thing, and the result will come to you. You know what is the right thing to do. And you might have to make sacrifices. You might have to make difficult discisions. You might have to risk something big You might have to say no to someone you care. You might have to give up something you are so accustomed to. And you are going to have to get out of your comfort zone. That is a must. Get out of your comfort zone. That's the only way you're going to get to where you want to be.

By taking the risk, you are gaining more opportunities.
By saying bye to the old, you are saying hi to the new.
By letting go of the fear, you are getting stronger.
By facing challenges, you are growing.
By living your life the fullest, your life is surrounded by more abundance.

You see?!  The Universe tells you. You know it already. You've already made so much excuses not to do it. Don't let yourself get away from your full potential. Don't let your opportunities go away. My friend told me once, "

This life is filled with opportunities and potentials. Only those who are ready can see them and grasp them. So, we have to be ready no matter what."

And I'd like to add one more thing. We have to always have positive mentality for ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING. and guess what?! What do we need to do that!? LOVE, HOPE and FAITH.

Be responsible for your own life. If you don't know what you want to do with your life, it's ok. For now, think about what makes you happy. You will eventually find out what it is that you want to do. The seeds are already in you. You have everything you need in you! Water ir, nature it, and LOVE it no matter what. You know what to do. Because you're born knowing it. Remember who you are and who you will be. And work for it.You will get there.

Love,

ONE Singular Sensation

Have you ever watch the show MONK?? He has the most extreme OCD you can possibly imagine. And in his closet, he only has the same shirts, exactly the same shirts. Same size, same color, same everything. They all face he same way in the same exact hanger, ironed perfectly. And he picks up one shirt every morning because that one, that particular one stood up to him. It looked different to him by some how. Do you see the one thing that stood up to him?!?

We've all been rejected. We've all been told that we're not good enough or smart enough. You know the feeling. When you wait in the holding room before your huge interview. Everyone dressed the same, and some how that person stands out to you. Then you start thinking so many things in your head. You start thinking you should have done this and that. You feel like you should have dressed differently. You feel like you should have listen to your parents and gobe to different school  You feel like you are not gonna make it.

STOP THINKING!!!!!!

Seriously. You can't change what has happened in the past. You can't go back and go to different school. You are there already. Focus on NOW. Right at this moment. You're there for reasons. You took that path for reasons. You were suppose to meet that person you hate so much to learn the lesson. You were protected from the huge accident that you might have gotten involved in. Do you think what you know now if you didn't take that path?!? Do you think you are who you are if you didn't experience that pain?!? So those are the things that makes you different from all the other people. Everything you've been up until now were there FOR you, not TO you. You might not see it that way now, but that's the truth. That's what makes you who you are. That's what makes you better you than the one from yesterday, or a month ago, or a year ago. You're better you than you from yesterday.

And guess what!?!? Everyone else in the room is thinking the same way. They all want to be the one to get picked. They all want to be the one shirt that's get picked up from the all the same shirts in that closet.

Accept who you are and embrace the path you took for it has given you what you have. It can be anything, friends, family, knowledge, prosperity, skills,  kindness, strength.... The moment you see all that differently, you'll start seeing the value and lessons within. Take a moment and a huge breath. And let's say someone else went through the exact same path as you did. And still it doesn't make him the person as you are. You are unique in your own way. You are already wonderful and beautiful. So, let go the fear. Let go the idea that you're not good enough. Let go the worry for the future. Let go of the limitations that's in your head.  You're provided. The success is on your way. You just need to learn to let go and be free. You have so much more to offer to the Universe. You will be the ONE SHIRT THAT GETS PICKED. You are the ONE SINGULAR SENSATION. And you're worth it.

Believe and know that you are worth it.
Accept that unlimited posibilities and happiness that's in store for you.

Remember, you're the ONE SINGULAR SENSATION.

Love,

What to do with our dreams?!

Why do we dream!? Why do we want to pursue what we want so much. Why do we fight for it?! Why can't we just give and let go!? Why it doesn't happen when and where we want it to happen?

And I can keep going with those questions. And to answer all those questions, well, if there's an answer that is, it will be

Because that's what you're born to do.

Do you get it? If that is the answer to all the question, why is it that we sturrgle so much? Why can't we just born with that in our hands?!

Then, the whole different sequence of questions happen. We want things to be our way. We want thinhgs to happen in our time schedule. And when it doesn't we get upset. And even those who are very faithful and patient ones will hit walls at time to time. They'd tell themselves that this too shall pass, it's another test and lesson need to be leanred. And they wait, wait, wait,....and wait some more. Then what happens!? Does it happen!? Are you happy!? Are you where you want to be!? It's so easy to believe in something you can't see and it's so difficult to keep faith in something you don't see.

"Count Down My Life", that's the title of the show I watched last night. It was about this inspiring writer, who is about to turn 30 years old. He struggle to finish his story, can't seem to find who he is, and being confronted by his past. Then, he find himself after discovering the shocking truth.

The reason might be simple as because you liked it. You wanted to make your parents proud. You wanted to see your girlfriend smile. You wanted to be someone else.... The reason can be anything. But when you finally realize that that's want you want to do with your life, rather what you are meant to do in this life time, what will you do!? Will it change anything?? Will you give you more strength to move forward? Will it give you more pressure to be good at it? And through that path, what are you offering to the rest of the world?! What is your part in this Universe?!

Everyone wants to be happy. it's just how we are. We want abundance, Love from family and friends, and success. It's just how it is. And guess what?! You will have all that. Because if you want it so badly, that means that's gonna happen to you. If it is something that you weren't meant to have, the feeling of wanting wouldn't have been planted to you in the first place. You are about to get the very things that you've been wanted for a long time. So, be patient little bit more. When you are frustrated, just think of how you're gonna enjoy that moment. Keep picturing that image, feel that image, and enjoy that image. it will happen. It's already been placed in your life. You're so close. You are almost there. So, just a little bit more patient. And always remember why you're born to this world. Why you want that so much.

I'm gonna sing no matter what. because that's what I was born to do. why do i want to do it?! becuase that's the only way I know how to inspire people. If they can see a spark of excitment in their life through my voice, it worth so much.

Love,