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Wednesday, July 17, 2013
The gift of NOT KNOWING
Did you get upset and quit?!
Did you just give up and forget about it?
Did you cry and whine that you can't do it?
How about this!?
BE excited that you have something that you can learn how to do.
Be eager to learn the new things in your life.
Be happy that there are so many things that you don't even have a slightest clue that exists.
Be grateful that you are able to grow more.
Be humble about the fact that you don't know everything.
There are people who thinks they know everything. But, seriously, they don't. It's impossible to know everything. there are always new things happening somewhere in this world, in this universe, and of course beyond that. There are too many people for you to meet. There are so many languages for you to master everything. There are so many spiecies, only in this Earth, for you to know.... So, again, it is impossible to know everything. There are more things you don't know than you know. And that should be your great motivation to learn more. It is exciting to know new things. Of course, studying the books wasn't my favorite thing to do. People learn things in their own way. Some people learn by doing, some learn from reading, or some learn from the books..... But you have to always keep that in mind that you don't know everything. Sure, when you're teenager, you might feel like you're the top of the world, or you know it all. Eventually, you WILL find out that you were WRONG and there's a lot more to learn.
You might as well enjoy it. It's fun to learn new things. It should inspire and motivate you to know what you DON'T know. Just that fact will give you an advantage to grow even more. If you're alive, you gotta work anyway. Knowing that fact that you don't know everything, that's gonna help you open your eyes more.
Love the learning process. Enjoy the moment of growth. Don't forget to study. No matter where you are or what you are doing, when you decide to learn, everything and everyone become your teacher. So, be willing to learn. That's gonna make a huge difference in your life. Life is a school. Anybody can be a teacher, and anybody can be a student. You know what?! It's exciting to get better. It's a gift. You GET TO learn more. You GET TO grow more. You GET TO explore more. Let's have fun.
Love,
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Do not worry about tomorrow.
We all have something to be worry about, especially NOW. When the economy is not that great, the unemployment rates are still high, people losing their jobs and houses, while 1% of the people are handling 35% of wealth in this whole world. Single mothers struggle to raise their children. Race is still an issue. World hunger is still not even close to be solved. People killing each other over stupid things. And People are killing themselves for having tough lives........
And in the time like this, it's not easy to believe this kinda thing. How can you not be worried about paying your ridiculously high rent when you have no jobs, or jobs that pay minimum wage!?? How can you not be worried about your loved one's life when they are in the hospital without insurance!? The questions could go on and on. I totally understand that.
Although this is a quote from Bible, I believe that everyone could apply this messege to your own life in your own way. I belive that your life will be so much better when you focus on TODAY, not tomorrow. You might die tonight in your sleep and never wake up tomorrow. Sure, you might say, "it's even better, now I don't have to worry about paying the bill!!!" or "If I'm dead, I don't have to think about what could have or should have anyway". I get that. I totally get that. My question is,
Will you rather spend your day as a happy life enjoying NOW, or miserable life worrying about tomorrow!?
What is your answer?!?
It's easy said than done. I get that. But you can still make a different choice. You have the power within you to make that choice, to enjoy life in the circumstance you're in. You have the power to love your life, and be grateful that you're alive when you got nothing. You can make the choice to be giving to others when there's nothing for you to give. (Let's just give them a big smile!!!) You have the power to say, I'm done being obsessed with my sad past, so I'm gonna move on.
You have that power. Every one of you. You have that power. And that choice is going to make a shift in your life. You'll have hard time keeping it up for the first few weeks or months or even years. You might wanna go back to your old habit. (being miserable and sorry for yourself) Don't take the easy way out. Make the right choice. Make the move. Make that decision to be happy.
And I'm telling you again.
I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!
Even though we've never met, and most likely we'll never do. But, I believe in you. You'll have your own place of happiness within you. You'll have the strength to make the right choice when you're weak. You are capable of making the positive choice in your life.
You might think that I'm a crazy person, I don't care. I just wanna spread LOVE, HOPE, and FAITH to this world that we live in. Because we have that power, you have that power. So, stop worring about tomorrow, and enjoy today.
Love,
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Love of my life
"If you're gonna have to deal with that anyway, why won't you find the way to enjoy and relax."
AMEN!!!!!! I couldn't have been more grateful to hear this. It has been more than a week since I started dealing with this nonsense, and it felt like a befriending frustration. And I've tried my best not to get myself annoyed, upset, or yell at them. But, it was reaching my limit. Even though I don't like complaining, the way they've been handling things were far from being professional. I knew it wasn't personal, or the fault of whoever I was talking to. It's not. It's just the whole system was messed up and lots of miscommunication. Even though I understood all that circumstances, I was THIS close to scream at them. I'm glad that I didn't. Because it wouldn't have been pretty. LOL
I'm grateful that he's my rock in this relationship. He keeps me sane when I'm about to go crazy. He makes me smile and laugh when I'm up or down. He makes me happy no matter what, even at times when he gets on my nerve, at the end of the day, he makes me happy. He supports me to pursue my dream, even though that means we are apart. He taught me to be strong when I'm weak. He gave me courage to go through life when it's rough. And I'm happy to play the same role from his perspective in this relationship.(well, at least I hope I do.)
We've been together for about 10 years now. Some people don't understand why we're not married or how our relationship works. But we take it day by day. We believe that everything happens for a reason. Right now, we're on the each side of this country. And he wants me to follow my dream and goal because he believes in me. I can't be more happier to be with someone like that. We had our ups and downs. And we've learned to respect each other and love each other for who we are and what we are as indivisual and as together. I can't ask for any better partner than him.
Thank you my love for always being there for me. I will always be there for you....
For the readers.... I hope you'll find someone precious in your life. And once you find that person, do not take that person for granted. Relationship has to be worked out both way. You can't force someone to love you the way you want them to. Take time to know that person. Learn what they like and love. Embrace that moment with that person. Respect that person. Treat them with nothing but love. Sometimes, you need tough love too. Find what's best for that person. Learn how to work as a team. It'll take time. But, when you find that person, you'll be so happy and grateful that you're with that person.
Love,
Friday, July 12, 2013
Just KNOW that it's gonna happen.
I love it! It's such a great way to present yourself in ANY situation. You should always keep the best intention no matter what. Sure, we always wish for certain results. But often times, it won't go exactly the way you hope it would be. And you have to accept that and live with it. What can you do!? We just gotta let go and keep moving on. That's all we can do. Seriously, we have to just let go what has already happened and move on. No matter how sad you are or disappointed you are, you can't change the outcome. So it'll be so much easier to have ZERO EXPECTATION.
However, having ZERO EXPECTATION is completely different from having NO FAITH. You have to have faith in what you do and what you are. Absolutely. All you can do is to keep that faith and keep going until you get it. Having that faith will help you go forward and open a new path when you get stuck. You have what it takes within you. Everybody does. The difference between the people who make it and who doesn't is that if you work hard and have faith in yourself.
You can't go out there with bad intention or bad attitude thinking "Oh, I'm not gonna make it" or "Oh, it's gonna be the same result as always". When you go in with that mentality, of course that's what's gonna happen. You have the power to change that. Go in with the BEST INTENTION, know that you're gonna make it happen. You don't have to know when or how, just know that you're gonna make it. That's all you need to know.
Sure, other people are making it happen a lot faster than you. They seem to have it all, and have it so easy. You are thinking, why is it not happening to me?! When will be my turn!? How is that gonna happen to me?!?? STOP THINKING THAT WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!! I repeat. STOP THINKING THAT WAY!!!!!
You have it all. If they make it before you did, maybe they did some extra work you didn't put in. Maybe they failed few more than you did before you knew them. Maybe they waited as long as you did. Just be Happy for them. Go celebrate with them. By doing that, you're simply attracting more positive thought and energy to yourself. You don't have to worry. Believe and know that it's gonna happen and keep working hard. Yes, you actually have to WORK FOR IT. Don't think people are going to hand you the success without any effort.
So, You're gonna make it happen. and that's all you need to know. The rest, let others do the rest. Go in with the BEST INTENTION, with ZERO EXPECTATION. Because you already know the result. Just believe it.
Love,
Saturday, July 6, 2013
The power of Faith
Faith is confidence or trust in a person, thing, deity, or in the doctrines or teaching of a religion. It is also belief that is not based on proof.
You see, it's not based on proof. How can you believe something that you can't see, hear, or feel!? How can you believe in the things that there is no proof!? How can you!? Were you ever saved because of your faith!? Were you ever successful because of your faith!? Do you have a faith in something?! And my biggest question to you is... Do you have a faith in yourself!?
The three pillars of this Universe, that's LOVE HOPE and FAITH. There's Love, which gives you Hope, and when the HOPE became so strong and undeniable, it will become Faith. And you keep the faith and go on. That'll lead you to success.
Everything must come from the place of love. Without it, there's no hope, there's no faith.
To be able to believe in something that has no proof takes an effort. I believe that you can do it. I believe that you have that power. As a matter of fact, everyone has that power. It's just a matter of if you know it or not. Once you know that you have that power, you'll see so much more opportunities and potential in this world. You will associate with right people. You will meet new people who will bring you positive attitude and energy. You will challenge things that you won't even dare before. You will be able to be more confident. You will see that you have that power within you the whole time. And that'll become FAITH. When you have that faith, all you have to do is keep going. You know that you have the power. Why and what do you have to worry about!? You might not know when or how, but it doesn't matter.
I have a faith in you. Even though I've never met you, I believe in you. so, keep going. Your time will come.
Friday, July 5, 2013
Happy 4th!!!
Happy July 4th!!! It is "Independence Day" of the United States of America. The land of opportunities are celebrating its birthday.
As I watched the beautiful fireworks after fireworks, I realized one thing.
Thid is amazing!!!!
You know why!?
Because the power and love.
Love for the fireworks.
Love for the country.
Love for the people.
Love for freedom.
Love for dreams ......
There's no negativity.
Let your life filled with Love, Hope and Faith. I'm just one person, but my love towards life is more than that.
I want you to be happy.
I want you to smile.
I want you to love and be loved.
I want you to have faith.
I want you to be strong.
I want you to believe you're more than you give yourself a credit for.
I want you to be kind to others.
I want you to be honest.
I want you to love yourself.
You can do it!!
Love.
Monday, July 1, 2013
What's more important!?
The question might bring different opinions.
Is Steve Jobs famous for his success at Apple or who he is!?
Is Martin Luther King known because of what he did or who he is?!
Is Audrey Hepburn known for her succesful career as an actress or who she is?!
Are the criminals known for their crime or who they are!?
So, which one is it!? I do belive that it comes down to who you are and who you can(could've) become. Those successful people belive who they are and what they are meant to do. I just read a book about Audrey Hepburn. I love her as an actress and her eleganct presence. And through the book, I learned that she had rough childhood, and her dream to be a dancer was shut down at young age because she was too tall. She realized her purpose in life to spread love through charity with UNISEF. She was a person of Love. Her love towards life attracted us.
Most people know in early part of his life, Steve Jobs got kicked out from his own company. But did he quit?! He belived in what he did. And the result came along.
I hope that most of the criminals are like that by their nature. A lot has to do with the way grow up, and the environment they were in. Those things should be learned by somehow. But, do they have a chance to turn their life around!? Of course!!!! Someone's gotta give them a chance to prove. As long as they commit to that choice to make their life better, they will make it happen.
The power of will is unimaginable. It's beyond our imagination. The power that comes from our mind, soul, and spirit can change so many things in so many level. I want you to know that things in the future are undetermined. Nothing in life is set yet. It is there for you to paint however you want. I want you to paint it in your color. I know you have a good soul. I know that you have a beautiful love within you. I know that you can change someone's life just by being you. I know that your life has so much more to offer for this universe. So... BELIVE IN WHO YOU ARE. I want you to believe in who you are and what you're capable of.
Up until this point, your life might not have been what you've picutre. Things might have been tough. Things might been aweful. But, if you have a picture of how you want your life to be, you can do it. Work hard. Don't let other people tell you what you can and what you can't do. Don't pay attention. If you say you can, you can make that life happen. Do your best. Live your life the fullest, and make things happen. Believe in the thought you have. It might not happen as soon as you want it to be, but things will happen. So, belive. Believe in who you are....
Love,
