Step by step

Right now, I took a huge step. For some, this is not even considered to be a step. For some, it comes so naturally. And for me, this is a huge one. It took me almost 10 years. Without a doubt, I am nervous. But, I did make this choice. And with good intention to move forward in my life.

They say that the first step is always the most difficult one. To be honest, I am truely overwhelmed by the situation. I'm proud of myself for finally taking this action. I'm proud of myself for finally put investment on myself. I am proud of myself for being me.

I didn't do it all by myself. People helped me. People pushed me to step up. People helped me to go on. And I am not alone.

I'm grateful for my life, blessing, and future that's full of happiness.

Thank you. And take a step with me. Even a half step. Take a risk with me, at least you won't wonder what it could have been.

You're full of life.
You're life.
You're love.
You're loved.

Love,

Every sinner has a future, every saints has their past.

Isn't that  beautiful quote?

Everyone deserves a 2nd chance. Nobody is perfect, and nobody ever will be perfect. It's just not how it is. Everyone has thier flaw and past. Everyone has made mistakes that they wish they could take it back. And sadly, we can't change the past. There's no rewind button in the real life.

One of my most favorite musical, and now also a movie, is Les Miserables. It's about the second chance. Jean Valjean lived his life based on how he wanted to live. His past didn't decide who he is. There might be people who will judge you for your past, like Javert did to Jean Valjean. But that wasn't who Jean Valjean was. Don't let your past defy who you are. If other people deny that, prove them wrong by your doing. But it's for yourself.

And when you get the second chance, don't take that for granted. Some might give you another chance, some won't. Make the best out of it. Apply the lessons you learned. Life is a lesson. Anyone and anything can be your teacher when you're open minded. A child teaches you how to play, your enermy can teach you how not to be like them. This whole universe is your textbook.

Learn more, live more. Tomorrow is for you to decide.

Love,

I'm Doing it!

Just like "Seeing is Believing."
Doing is solution. Not Thinking or Planning.

I just read that the planning is only the 5% of process when it comes to solving a problem. The rest is brought by your action. It is so true. Thinking and going over the plan might make you feel like things are already going towards the better way. The problems are to be solved. It makes you feel that way. and planning actually makes you feel better by somehow. Who agree with me??? I do. When I hit a wall and it seems like there's no way out, and I feel like it's the end. After spending so much time there in the bottom, just thinking about the better life will help me be in the better mood. And I forget that that's the only beginning of the end. I forget to take action afterward, which is THE MOST IMPORTANT PART. also the HARDEST PART. It takes courage and determintation. and as we grow older, changes don't come as easily as it used to. We tend to make excuses that sounds like making a total sense. Don't be fooled by that!!!! Don't believe in those lies. Those are made by YOU. Meaning, YOU CAN CHANGE THE OUTCOME!!!!

It' so difficult get out your comfort zone, and challenge new things. Especially because the first step is most likely the hardest step. It's not easy to step out. but when you take the step, even you fail after that, you should be proud that you did take the step. YOU DID IT! Most of people are too afraid to do it. and when they're in 80s or 90s, they'll wonder why they didn't take the step, and how it could have been. But You did it.You took that step. So, you already know how it's like. If you didn't like the outcome, find some other ways, or something else. I'm not telling you to be a quitter. I'm just saying that there are so many other options for you to try!

So, take action! dont' just think in your head and think that it's all happening. it's not. you're only fantasizing the story that you made up. By taking action, you'll open up more options. A lot could happen, most of them might be the things you never thought of before. Take a risk, without it you are limitting your infinite possibility.

Say it out loud with me. Look at the bright broad sky and say,

"I'm taking the action. Because I deserve more."

You have that power to change your life. Love,

Be the bigger, better person.

Life is about choice. Some are conscious choices, some are not. When it comes to how to live your life, things will go so much easier when you make a better choice. And we should always take the positive choice. To the point it comes to you automatically.

When you're tired or upset, or even sad, it's not easy to bring positive thought into your life. Negative energy will try to get hold of you. And it's easier for them to sneak up on you when you're like that. It makes you wanna take things in a negative way, or personally, or it makes you feel like there's nowhere else to go. Like the whole universe is going against you. But you have to believe that is not true. Those are the time you have to show your strength and love.

"The problem is there if you see it as a problem. Take it as a challenge, and it will help you grow".

And if the universe thinks that you can't overcome whatever you're facing, you won't be there in the first place. You're there because you're strong enough to handle it. Because you deserve the better and brighter life ahead of you. Life is actually pretty simple. Joel Osteen says in his book,

"Nothing happens TO you. Everything happens FOR you."

Everything is gift for you. Sure being rejected from the college, getting fired, losing your loved ones, those won't seem like one. But the things you learn from the experience, those are the gift for you. You might wanna see it in overnight. Most of the things won't happen over night as the law of attraction has its time delay depends on your energy flow.

If someone says bad thing about you, instead of getting upset just feel bad for them. They are not as good as you are. They can't see the good in you. If someone gives you a hard time, be extra nice to them, and be glad that you're NOTHING like them.

You are better than that!

You have so much more to offer to the universe. You have so much more beauty in you. Embrace that about you.
If someone can't see that and don't treat you the way you deserve, that's their loss. Not yours.

So, make positive choices. Find what you can appreciate. You can do it. Because you're wonderful.

Love,

Everyday is Happy Birthday!

It was my birthday yesterday. It's the day of celebration!!!! What does your birthday mean to you? Presents? Cake? Champagne? Spending time with your family and friends? How and more importantly, what do you celebrate?

I think of birthday as a day of celebration and appreciation. As we should appreciate every morning for  the brand new day given to you, we should appreciate the whole new year ahead of you.

Appreciate that you're alive and well.
Appreciate that your family love you...
Appreciate that you're here, right at this moment.

Celebrate your brand new day/year.
Celebrate the beginning of a new journey.
Celebrate your infinite possibility.

Happiness starts within you.
When you can appreciate what you already have, the universe will give you more for you. Don't take anything for granted. Everything is precious. Every moment is precious. And you are pecious.

Love,

Don't Underestimate How Amazing You Are

A lot of people underestimate their own value. You're amazing, beutiful, and talented person. But they tend to put yourself down, or don't believe in themselves.

Is it because you care about what other people qould say? Are you afraid of being too different? Are you afraid of rejection? Are you afraid to get out the comfort area? Did someone tell you that you're not good enough?

There are many reasons why people don't value themselves. Whatever happened in the past, it happened. We can't change the past. What we can do is to change the attitude.

A kid might called you names in the past. You didn't feel like your parents loved you growing up. Your loved one might have betrayed you. Perhaps you didn't get the promotion that you worked so hard for.

It's not you that missing out. It's the other way around. They don't know what they are missing out. They don't know how awesome you are.

Believe in yourself. Please know that you're amazing person. The hardship you face will make you stronger, wiser, and kinder. It'll make you a better person. And that's who you are. You're better than all those people who made you feel like nothing. You're so much better than that. It's just what THEY think. It's not who you are. Don't let others decide your value. You are the only person who can value yourself and it's a  lot more than what you think you worth. You're wonderful.

You are beautiful, amazing and loving person. Don't underestimate how awesome you are. It doesn't mean you have to be corky or arrogant, or being rude to others. It's a completely different issue. You believe in your value and know who you are. And that's exactly why you should respect other people's value.

You're much more than what you give yourself credit for. Love yourself. Because you're amazing. Don't stop growing. You can be much more. You got all the seeds you need for your future within you.

Love,

The Sign

Do you believe in messeges??? And signs that are given from the universe? I do. I do big time.

When I left my house this morning, I saw this little rock hanging in the gate.

"You can Do More"

How incredible is that!? The universe is telling me that I can do more. How can I not believe this?

If you look around, and pay attention, you'll realize that the signs are everywhere. They can be anything, anywhere and anyone.

Do you realize that things show up on its own when it's all perfect?! When you're looking for something and looking for everywhere, you can't find it by somehow. But after a while and you forget about it and BOOM!!!! It shows up right there in your face, right when you needed. When you're desperate, you attract the "Why can't I find-ness". The negative energy and outcome. You're not lookin for the sign with the right attitude. That could have made you missed it. You're being blind-sided. When you're not thinking about it, you're attracting the poositive thoughts, or at least you're Not attracting the negative outcome.

The signs are everywhere. Be open. Be aware of the surrounding. Be positive. Then, you'll know. You'll see the sign and the road ahead of you.

Love,